MY INTRUSIVE THOUGHT.
WHEN PEOPLE WANT TO POP BACK INTO YOUR LIFE (RE-ACCUAINT THEM SELVES)
IT'S THEIR WAY OF RESELLING AN OLD NEWSPAPER TO YOU.
WHEN I IGNORE PEOPLE IT'S BECAUSE I'VE SEEN WHAT THEY WERE SELLING/ OFFERING BACK THEN AND STILL I'm NOT INTERESTED.
Engaging: Engaging on my end is because I'm curious to learn what changed. What they are doing differently now and what caused them to take this course...
What new traces influenced them, to act in the manner that they do.
(This is when I am willing to read the new addition to your paper)
Questions I always have questions... if your willing to talk.
What happened?
Why did this happen?
When did this happen?
Where did this happen?
also Who did this to you...?
Why do you act in this manner?
Curiosity...
When to disengage... when there are traces of red flags that alarm my spidey senses. Walls of protection come up. Until I feel I got to the bottom of it.
Listening intently to the words one says or uses,
in which manner they said it,
and the tone.
Actions, Interactions, Influences...
Intent.
Rosie LaMadrina
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